I don't remember which movie it was in, but there were two men (filled with testosterone), and they had this bet that the loser would be the girl. It was never specified what ''gets to be the girl'' means. Is there a fixed meaning to it in English?
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It amounts to derision, because the lowest form of life in the minds of little boys are little girls. My grandson, aged 9 next week is in the middle of it, and I don't think has invited a single girl to his birthday party.
But most well-adjusted males grow out of it by the time they are about 12. Others have it for life.
I believe the OP misheard the line quoted from the movie. Instead, the most likely and most common phrase said in movies where there are two men and a woman involved is the following
Loser gets the girl
There are two interpretations for this line. The first being that the two bikers are making a bet, and the loser "wins" the girl. The girl in question, especially in comedies, is normally overweight, unattractive, and/or extremely vapid. The winner of the bet gets to go out with the bestfriend of the former. And of course, she has all the typical characteristics of a beautiful desirable woman.
The second interpretation is also a clichè in American movies, where the protagonist is defined as being a loser; the man in question might be painfully shy, a nerd, a bit weird looking, an outsider, someone who is easily pushed around etc. At the end of the movie he and not his best friend or nemesis gets the girl.
TV tropes has this to say:
Ten films where the loser gets the girl
These could also be two men that enjoy... men. And the loser of the race is going to be the girl. The taker next time they have sex.
And I do have a lot of gay friends and (jokingly or not) I hear them say things like "next time you get to be the girl."
It is all about context though.