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That is the translation (provided by Wikiquote) of the Dutch proverb "Vertrouwen komt te voet en vertrekt te paard." I don't like this translation very much for conversational use. It doesn't "feel" right. Neither does "Trust comes on foot, but leaves on horseback."

The actual, somewhat lengthy, meaning of the proverb is that a single stupidity can ruin trust or reputation that took years to build.

I tentatively prefer "Trust is hard to gain but easy to lose." However, I'm not native-English speaking.

What is the "best" way to succinctly express the idea behind the proverb in English?

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There is no best way, only a way that you like. "Trust comes in like a chiton and goes out like cheetah" or "Trust sidles in like a two-toed sloth and vacates like a velocious Valkyrie". Make up your own & ask whether they work. –  user21497 Apr 10 '13 at 11:57
    
Trust is hard to gain but easy to lose is what the old saw means, but it's not memorable language. More like last week's pitcher of beer. –  user21497 Apr 10 '13 at 12:02
    
Trust arrives like a refrigerator and leaves like a symploce. –  Robusto Apr 10 '13 at 12:21
    
The wording of a proverb is usually set by culture. Fashions change though. –  Mitch Apr 10 '13 at 12:21

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Trust takes years to build, seconds to break, and forever to fix.

I've never used this, and, if an appropriate situation arose, I'd probably use "Trust comes on foot, but leaves on horseback." Making Gugg famous.

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"Trust takes years to build, seconds to break, and forever to fix." Would that be perceived as corny by a native-English speaker? Is that why you'd prefer the other one? –  Glen The Udderboat Apr 10 '13 at 13:05
    
@Gugg: Not corny, but certainly not hip. I'd say over-formal in a conversation where someone was needing reassurance rather than instruction in English constructions. Fine as a comment by the author in a novel. –  Edwin Ashworth Apr 10 '13 at 13:09

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